Hello Steemians how are you all?
Before beginning I would like to remind all of you what we are doing here. We are building a community with respect, reprogramming our minds with positivity, with the idea of helping one another.
I was aware of this and a few blogs ago we started doing a great initiative with each other, upvoting each others comments, and many new people joined because of the great attitude displayed.
However lately I’ve seen people have stopped doing this. I remember seeing 9,10,11 upvotes on comments (of course, not on the spam ones like: amazing, wow, i like, etc)
Because of this I ask you if you leave a comment, come back in a day and support others and you will see your kindness returned. On top of that for me that is an indication that people are understanding the message of helping each other, without worrying much about the SP. I’ve been upvoting very generously to everyone who puts effort, but I ask that you all do the same, ok?
So let’s continue..
On this post I would like to talk about a subject that I’ve had to discuss with thousands of people that I’ve trained and in 90% of the cases it never stops being a paradigm that people have and need to get rid of urgently.
The majority of the people who don’t progress in their life projects get stuck because of thinks they learned growing up, or a collective idea. This makes them not believe in themselves, makes them listen to the thieves of dreams, and what is the result of this:
“THE FEAR OF LOSS IS GREATER THAN THE DESIRE TO WIN”
Please, remove this from your life as soon as possible and reprogram your mindset.
I can talk about a few examples of this:
1- Many times employees work completely unsatisfied, but they have really good ideas for the lives, they would like to grow, but the paradigm that they have in their head says: “If I leave this job, and I lose my salary, What will I do?” Believe me that those who have vision and courage end up making three or four times more once they pursue their goals, but they have that false sense of security.
2 - Another example: One time I was hired by a company in the area of sales as a trainer. The company had about 500 people on the payrolls, and the company that hired me wanted me to make it seem as if people were at risk of losing their jobs, and that made production increase by 30%, but why? Because they loved the company but not their bosses, and they feared losing the secure jobs.
3 - When we are raise in poor households our families tend to say things like: Are you sure you can start your own business? If it doesn’t work out? You are leaving your job? What do you do if it fails?
Plenty of times we listen to this, from friends even: If it doesn’t work? Or worse: You will not make it. In this case it’s because they have that fear themselves, or don’t want their friend to succeed. Sadly plenty of people are afraid of success and don’t want people within their circle to succeed either, which is pure ego.
Ahh! I forgot a common phrase: You are taking a leap, too big for your legs.
The problem is that we hear this from people who don’t understand the project or how much you’ve researched about it.
Because of this I want to leave you with a message and its the following:
“HAVE MORE HUNGER TO SUCCEED, THAN FEAR OF LOSS” @chbartist
Don’t worry about making mistakes, that is part of life, believe me.
“Its better to make mistakes with your own head, that to make them because of someone else’s opinion” @chbartist
If you are mistaken, it will be because of you and you will learn, but if you follow someone else you are likely to feel a lot more regret in the future.
Making a mistake is not a problem, the problem is to quit trying and to stop improving, so you have to let go that fear and embrace the possibilities.
Do not forget what I wrote in the previous posts. Know that you have to listen to people who have lived the experiences you want to follow, even if they’ve made mistakes and failed at lets say opening a restaurant, this does not mean that you will fail. Take advantage and try to learn from their mistakes too, you have parameters you can analyze and on top of that all of us have a different capacity to learn.
A BIG HUG TO YOU ALL